Becoming Better not Bitter – Day 3
Wednesday, August 28
Becoming Better not Bitter – Day 3
But let patience have its perfect work, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking nothing. James 1:4
Patience is not just for difficult circumstances but also for our relationships with others. We live in a world where people will often fail us. Whether it’s intentional or accidental, the reality is that human beings are imperfect, and we all fall short. It’s easy to become frustrated, resentful, or even angry when others let us down. But as followers of Christ, we are called to respond differently. The word of God in Ephesians 4:2 reminds us to be patient with one another, making allowances for each other’s faults out of love.
Patience with others is not just about enduring annoying habits or overlooking small mistakes; it’s about extending grace in the face of real hurt and disappointment. When someone fails us, we have a choice: to react with anger and bitterness or to respond with patience and understanding. This doesn’t mean we excuse wrongdoing, but rather that we choose to approach the situation with a heart of love, seeking resolution and growth rather than retaliation.
Trials and temptations are not the same. Trials are tests from God, and He uses them for our benefit. Temptations, on the other hand, come from our flesh. Every person in the world will encounter various trials throughout life. Satan seeks to defeat you by tempting you to trust your own wisdom, to respond according to the flesh and to live according to your self-centered feelings. Although trials and temptations are different for each person, bitterness is one common temptation everyone faces.
Instead, we are called to be patient, bearing with one another in love. This means showing grace when others make mistakes, being slow to anger, and quick to forgive. Patience in our relationships reflects the love and grace that God has shown us.
It’s important to remember that just as others may fail us, we too are capable of failing others. We all have areas where we struggle, and we all need grace. When we keep this perspective, it becomes easier to show patience toward others. By doing so, we reflect the patience and love that God shows us every day. Because of the mercy of God, we are saved. Look for ways to be merciful to others as God has been merciful to you and in doing so you release yourself from bitterness of the offense.
Is God speaking to your heart today? Is there someone in your life who tests your patience. How can you demonstrate more grace and understanding toward them? First free yourself by forgiving that person. Next, ask God to give you a heart of compassion and patience in your interactions.
Prayer for today: Lord, help me to be patient with others as You are patient with me. Fill my heart with Your love and grace so that I can show patience and kindness in my relationships. Amen.